FRIENDSHIP, by and large is a very wide term , a beautiful one indeed. Friends are considered one of the most valuable gifts conferred to us humans by the almighty. All of us at some point of time in our lives need someone else than our family to be there for us. But why does an outsider's presence count much more than the support of your own family sometimes?
The simple answer to this question is that this is a bond which we do not inherit , but create when we incept our life. As infants and little toddlers friends meant kids of our own age and size who will play with us in biting heat of Sun. But as one grows up and sees the world with a more matured outlook , they are a part of your little world. To every pretty story has a darker side. Some believe , they don't have any true friends or worst , no friends at all.
There is no denying that a positive mind and thought process lets a positive energy flow in your life and leads to sheer happiness. Though , you are not being negative if you think other way round at times. What is important is to not dwell upon the low and dull phase for too long. Learn your lesson , feel the pain and move on. I continually vacillate a number of times over the fact that am I lucky enough or not to have at least one or two people in my life who will never leave me alone? The reason this question bugs my mind is the happenings in my recent world. The answer , though I feel is futile but the feeling of the whole endeavor (yes an endeavor it was to me ) is what I'd like to share.
Keeping myself here in a position of the hero of this short story I'd ask my reader to believe that part from a few mistakes I had been the goody girl all the time :D ( though I really am but you won't agree :p ) I am not a very friendly person . Friendly in a way that not everyone can be close to me. Such close relations , I believe are formed over a span of time and nurture as you spend more time together. But once I let you close , I won't let you go easily :) So , I have had these 4 - 5 super awesome friends in college , bunks , studies , movies and everything we did together. A time came which split us apart , then we got up together but not as warmly as earlier. I gave in my 100% to get us back but to no avail. So , the whole thing taught me that tough times tell you who were actually your friends, who all will always be at your side , who really cared throughout.
The lesson learnt is simple. they would not come back because in the very first place they were really not there. Put in your heart and soul to bring back the happy times , keep on thinking what wrong you are doing but all useless. don't victimize yourself because it went wrong , be rather pleased and appeased as you strongly stood for your friendship when your so called friends could not.
I am lucky enough to find one such friend at the end but no regrets for the others left behind. One should always be thankful to God for what you have instead of crying over what you don't.
Keeping myself here in a position of the hero of this short story I'd ask my reader to believe that part from a few mistakes I had been the goody girl all the time :D ( though I really am but you won't agree :p ) I am not a very friendly person . Friendly in a way that not everyone can be close to me. Such close relations , I believe are formed over a span of time and nurture as you spend more time together. But once I let you close , I won't let you go easily :) So , I have had these 4 - 5 super awesome friends in college , bunks , studies , movies and everything we did together. A time came which split us apart , then we got up together but not as warmly as earlier. I gave in my 100% to get us back but to no avail. So , the whole thing taught me that tough times tell you who were actually your friends, who all will always be at your side , who really cared throughout.
The lesson learnt is simple. they would not come back because in the very first place they were really not there. Put in your heart and soul to bring back the happy times , keep on thinking what wrong you are doing but all useless. don't victimize yourself because it went wrong , be rather pleased and appeased as you strongly stood for your friendship when your so called friends could not.
I am lucky enough to find one such friend at the end but no regrets for the others left behind. One should always be thankful to God for what you have instead of crying over what you don't.
yeah chiki :* love u
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